How do you see it?

I have seen a lot of people who look like they are bombarded by all the circumstances in the world.They have drooping shoulders that made them look like a human question mark.I met one guy who use to look like an action star but now he looks like a soldier from ancient Mesopotamia because of how he views his circumstance.Let me share to you what i have told him which actually helped him.

Your circumstance are not negative or positive whatever it is.Like Mathematics they are "the givens" and are neutral.But it is your way of thinking and your perspective that made the circumstance in your life appear negative or positive.If you have considered an event in your life as bad, then there must be something good about it.Everything has its opposite.

Take a look at your bag if you are holding one. Your office if you are in your workplace right now.Your room if you are in your house.Did you notice that there is an inside and outside part of it? right ? Lets turn the table and make it more personal.Look at your body.Yes your gorgeous body! ( take a second look he he he) just kidding.It has left and right side, front and back part right?

The law of Polarity says that in everything their is an opposite - it is equal and opposite.If you are five feet from your door, your door is five feet from you.I motivate and inspire people but it does't excuse me from circumstances that made me cry a river, makes me scream makes me scream!(that line is from a song) Here's what i do... i draw a circle and i put at the center my circumstance and i navigate around it until i am on the other side and i look at the situation from there.

Honest! it is much clearer to see things from there.What is your circumstance right now?

got no cell phone load? having a flat tire? you failed in the exams? no date for valentines day?

Every problem, every circumstance can be viewed two ways.The way you look at a circumstance determines the quality of life you live.

Do you find this idea difficult? Look at it from a different perspective.

" Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equivalent or a greater benefit" Napoleon Hill