Sweeter as the years go bye

Men gives all the needed sweet words and promises to capture the heart of the lady they wanted to live forever.Usually the promises goes like this
"I promise you the heavens, the moon and the stars, the flowers in the garden and all the chocolate bars". But thats during the courting.After the wedding the woman will see all the stars while waiting for their husbands to arrive home.Or the husband will eat all the sweets because the wife is diabetic ha ha ha.

Here's some tips from the single guy (thats me)to keep the marriage sweet.If this doesn't work,please don't sue me...remember i'm single.Single ladies who happens to read this item may you find my worth as a bf or husband to desire ha ha ha.

Here's the tips:

Honor each other- Give your spouse all the honor in the world in words, in kind and in action.

Be a nurse, doctor and care giver to each other- I remember one sick husband who told her wife " your love keeps healing me"(how sweet)

Bring back the courtship- Go out for a date. Walk in the park where you use to walk.Go to the mall like you use to do a decade ago.(please don't bring your credit card)

Always re-structure your family and couples activity to avoid boredom and predictability.Keep each other to look forward to a coming soon event.

Go to church together- Attend church the way you do when your where still sweethearts where you hold hands while listening to the homily.Where you listen more to the beating of your hearts than to the preaching ha ha ha.

Use Paraphrasing in your communication- This will help you and your spouse be cleared about some issues or concerns.It will help you both to get to the point vividly.

Have no secret- Let your spouse have access to the inbox,out box, and sent messages of your mobile phone. Give him/her access to your face book.Have a joint bank account.

Always Empathize- Before you decide to react or decide always think of how your spouse would feel about it.Put your self in their situation before you give a decision.

Marriage is a sacred thing.Others stormed all the sacred sites and even the heaven to find a wife and husband while you got yours.That makes you blessed.Value and treasure the privilege of being married.As for me...the search is not yet over.